Mixing Friends
(School-Work-Uni…Etc.) They are all great and all unique in their own way.
However when i have a gathering or a party or anything that requires having a bunch of people over… I really don’t like to mix my friends, Just because i dont want anyone to feel weird or left out in anyway. I dont mind having them get to know eachother and stuff, i just know that some of them wont blend in.. Cause if we all speak english and one person doesnt then its weird.. if we talk about subjects that ONE person is not into then thats going t be weird… even though i dont like to have anyone feeling uncomforable i always find myself feeling bad for someone feeling left out…
I really want everyone to be there … and if i dont tell someone i just feel like crap.
The other night i was invited to a birthday of someone who was with me in school… it was a girls party and for some reason i felt like the odd one out… i was very uncomfortable..even though there was a whole group of ppl that i knew..
There is also the fact that you share yourself with people in a different way depending on the social circle that it is. Work friends get the “work you” and uni friends get the “Uni you”.
The truth is that you can’t please all of the people all of the time, but as long as you try to then you are being the best you that you can be.
I don’t mix too many people together just to keep things smooth.. I have figured out over time who mixes and who doesn’t..
I dont do radical mix get-togethers you know!
Co-workers are better left co-workers except for the really cool ones hehehehe and I kinda know who to mix with who because like you I dont like someone to feel left out, I am surprised you did feel the odd one out since I know you are pretty social!!!!
good post.
I somehow disagree with you, I think it is a good idea to mix friends .. people are meant to be social, this will not happen 24/7 so he ur friends will meet ur others once or twice, if they mixed well they will win new friends, if not then thats it they won’t see them again so often so thats ok!
true
I hate mixing friends too, sometimes they get along too well.