(School-Work-Uni…Etc.)  They are all great and all unique in their own way.

However when i have a gathering or a party or anything that requires having a bunch of people over… I really don’t like to mix my friends, Just because i dont want anyone to feel weird or left out in anyway. I dont mind having them get to know eachother and stuff, i just know that some of them wont blend in.. Cause if we all speak english and one person doesnt then its weird.. if we talk about subjects that ONE person is not into then thats going t be weird… even though i dont like to have anyone feeling uncomforable i always find myself feeling bad for someone feeling left out…

I really want everyone to be there … and if i dont tell someone i just feel like crap.

The other night i was invited to a birthday of someone who was with me in school… it was a girls party and for some reason i felt like the odd one out… i was very uncomfortable..even though there was a whole group of ppl that i knew..

It really pisses me off when i KNOW that  a man thinks that women are benith him, he thinks woment are supposed to stay home and cook and clean and have babies.

He takes anything that a womend does as an offense when he knows its a job well done.

He will spice up a regular request to seem like the job is being neglected, many things are on hold, and that the employee is careless. 

I work with someone like that and we all know who that person is.. I have blogged about him before. Yes Ladies and Gents it’s Mr. itchy Crotch himself.

Last week i asked to take a day off on thursday cause i wanted to go to dubai for the weekend. I asked to take it unpaid and he couldnt ust say yes.. he had to throw a few comments…

R:  I need to take thursday off unpaid because im travelling.    

Mr. Itchy Crotch: You cant keep taking days off, you are still in a critical state in this job you are still on probation

R: When did i take a day off???, and im not on probation i was done with probation in JAN its now MAY

MIC: In Nov. when u went to dubai

R: I Didnt take the day off i went after work i just left 30 mins early

MIC: No you took the day off

R: No I didnt’t.  Check my file…..

I was Right!!  Why did he have to go and act like i take every other day off?

As it turned out because of the Passing of Sheikh Saad RIP we had thursaday off anyway. So it didnt count!

Did i mention what he told me after he approved thursday as my day off ?(Just to show you how he thinks)

MIC:- You Are taking thursday off right?

R: Yes

MIC: That means you will be taking 3 unpaid days.

R: Excuse me? Why is that?

MIC: Well you will be ruturning sunday to kuwiat so Sat and Fri are part of your trip.

R: So what? what i do on my weekend is none of your business.. i am only asking for thursday…

MIC: fill out the application and well see.

So I did….

Date of Leave:- Thursday 15.5.2008

Date OF Return:- Thursday 15.5.2008

Yesterday i was very sick i couldnt get out of bed so i sent him a message saying … I’m very sick and i will not be able to come in right now  i will go to the doc. and once im feeling better i will come in.

He asked the secretary where i was… (Even though i sent him a message)

and when she told him i’m sick he responded by saying:- What’s wrong with this girl? She’s Abesent Everysingle day?

That Friggin pissed the hell outta me so i came in I looked like shit my face was yellowish-green. i came in to show the fucker that i am dedicated and I am FUCKING SICK.

He saw me and  didnt say anything.. another manager in the Co. told me to go home i could barely stand.

He calls me at 6

MIC: I heard you came in today

R: Yes

MIC: Whats wrong with your voice?

R: I’m Sick

MIC: Well why did you come in you could have stayed home and rested?

WTF????

Ps:- He’s Absent today

 I love my family. I Love spending time with them but i just need some me time!!!!

I have blogged b4 about some of the things that annoy me when it comes to my family , this blog will be one of those!

Ever since they declared the new weekend to be Fri. And Sat. I have always had Sat. mornings for myself, (My Dad Goes to work on that day.) Since its not a family day …. I Take Advantage!!!!!!!

I’m Always home by 5 Pm or sooner depending on when i leave, so there is no reason whatsoever for any complaints!

For the past month my mom wants to use My “Me Time” as a mother daughter day and my dad decided that Sat. will be  a half day instead of a full day at work.

Now….what i wanna know is…. Are they so against me having time for myself and enjoying a DAY that they have to ruin it in any way possible.

If she wants a mother daughter day we can do it when i come home… or on Friday afternoon or something.

I think because they know that i do enjoy the occasional family gathering, they are taking advantage and turning everyday life into a friggin family reunion!!!

I’m not a kid its not like I’m 12 I’m friggin 25 years old they don’t even need to be butting in so much (esp. since I’m not really asking for much)

The disadvantages of being half Arab in an Arab country!